I was talking to Robert this morning, asked him what he was like when he was 18. He was shy, yet, he moved across the country to go to college and thinks it was valuable to do that. when I was 18 I got into UC Santa Cruz, but my mom said I don't want you to go. If you want to go, you wont get a car. I opted for the car and went to SBCC, later transfered to UC (a better school.supposedly.). Really, it's up to Nick to decide and we all need to support him to do so. It's a crucial time in his life, but he needs room to find what he wants. Noelle