And I'm really late into this discussion. I am an childless-by-choice and childfree. And, since I fixed it so that I can't procreate, so is Noelle... > From: Reen Bodo <http://www.best.com/~bodo> > Date: Thu Sep 9, 8:56pm > > Really from: Reen Bodo <http://www.best.com/~bodo> > I've been away for a few days of peace and quiet at a Benedictine monastery > - hope the polls haven't closed on this question: > > I am happily child-free by choice. I'm turning 42 in a couple of weeks and, > contrary to what everyone told me throughout my teens and my twenties *and* > my thirties about my so-called "biological clock," it has never started > ticking and it's not likely to start now. > > For some of us, nothing about having or raising children has ever been > appealing, and it was often a trial to hear people tell me - as if they knew > my mind and my feelings better than I did - that someday I would change my > mind. I'm just lucky that it was only dense but well-meaning strangers who > said that; my family and friends, God bless 'em, have always known better. > > Reen