Re: abusive/yelling boss

[http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert (robert)]

 > From: Doraleen McArthur <http://www.worldnet.att.net/~D.McArthur>
 > Date: Thu  Dec 24,  3:32am
 >
 > At 02:07 PM 12/23/98 -0500, robert wrote:
 > >Really from: "robert" <http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert>
 > >Hi.  How do you-all deal with a boss who yells at people?  My S.O., Noelle
 > >(an INFJ), gets yelled at by her boss and it upsets her.  I've suggested
 > >that she set up a meeting with her boss and just tell her that it upsets
 > >her, so her boss at least knows her feelings.  She's looking for another
 > >job, anyway.
 > 
 >         Is the boss generally aggressive?

No, I don't think she is.

 > I know I've had problems in the
 > past with Macho Men who feel the need to knock me down a notch; my response
 > has been to play his game inasmuch as I can stand to do so until he thinks
 > I'm a Good Girl.  Then I can act more normally again.
 > 
 >         If the boss is just a yeller in general, well... get a new job.

Yep.  It's a shame 'cause her commute is great (a 10 minute walk)...

 > Sorry.  I do sympathize though.
 > 
 > --Katie