> From: Renee Mackey <http://www.snet.net/~rmackey> > Date: Tue Sep 8, 10:38pm > > Really from: Renee Mackey <http://www.snet.net/~rmackey> > Chris Petit wrote: > > Around 1:00 in the afternoon, robert and his wife showed up (let me > > know if I have the names wrong -- I'm very bad at names) -- they are > > members of the list but are lurkers. They're both extremely intelligent, > > considerate people. :-) > > Yes, I agree, they are! But I think Noelle is Robert's fiance, not his > wife, at least not yet! :-) I regret that I didn't have enough time to > get to know them better. One thing I did learn about them is that they > both seem to prefer the West coast over the Northeast, even though > Robert grew up in Ma. Yes, this is true. Let me say that I think I may have said some things there that I may have regretted -- it may have created unnecessary tension. (I generally feel awkward in groups, especially afterwards!) The west coast vs. east coast was one of them. I guess I didn't mean "obnoxious" as much as more meant "insensitive". I do feel that most east coast people are more insensitive and, in some ways, more cruel than those that I've met on the west coast. I grew up in Sudbury, MA and was in constant fear and discomfort in school because of these sorts of people, people who hated me because I was different. When I went to college on the west coast (Olympia, WA), it was like a breath of fresh air in comparison. And it seemed the same when I moved to Oakland and then to . So, there! Flame away! > Renee