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Re: Hikikomori: Why are so many Japanese men refusing to leave their rooms?
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- Subject: Re: Hikikomori: Why are so many Japanese men refusing to leave their rooms?
- From: Robert <http://dummy.us.eu.org/robert>
- Date: Mon, 08 Jul 2013 18:06:06 -0700
- Keywords: my-Oakland-voicemail-number
> From: Noelle <http://dummy.us.eu.org/noelleg>
> Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2013 16:18:38 -0700 (PDT)
>
> I found it interesting that the sons had conflicts with their parents
> about choice of career and major,social anxiety,not having friends.
It's pretty amazing that I ever made or make any friends at all. It just
takes me forever to become friends with people (usually 4 to 5 years). I
guess I'm just neurotically shy; I also have an uncanny ability at making
conversations short, even with family. (I think Nick has this unique
skill, too.) I'm horrible at small talk.
It's good that I have a hobby (computers). Keeps me busy during those
times between finding friends.
> Also
> this phenomenon started with the Japanese recession and the insecurity
> from that.
>
> I'm involved in a group trying to start a cooperative brewpub here. There
> are 225 members but about 2000 are needed for viability. It's hard to get
> people to volunteer to make this democratic venture get going.(Black Star
> co-op brewpub is the model in Austin,TX).
>
> ONe of our members lives here but works as a union organizer in
> Manchester, VT most of the week.
>
> Noelle
> PS how come we never hear anything about Nick?What is he up to?