> From: Bhavani <http://www.juno.com/~margaretch> > Date: Fri, 3 Mar 2006 09:25:51 -0500 > > Hi Robert & Noelle- > > So the latest news is that Dick AKA Richard, dad has some added pain- as > if he didn't have enough?So he had an ultrasound and it showed that he > had a ¼? kidney stone and a cyst on his kidney. He will have to go to an > urologist I think for the cyst- the stone looks like it?s not impeding > anything. He also went to Lahey Clinic to see a neurologist for what he > thought might be his back related issue with the limping and hobbling. > Dr. Tarlov then referred him to an Orthopedic surgeon who said that he > needs a hip replacement. The doctor (Orthopedic Surgeon) would prefer > that he loss weight, but waiting may not be an option since the pain is > really getting worse. At this time he has great difficulty walking and > we don't know if that is due to the cyst or maybe a strained muscle?? Did you hear the story about back surgeries? http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5240537 It might not be beneficial. > [the doctor] thought it was a small risk if I didn't have the > surgery for skull replacement. I think since I am already 60 and that I > am not in construction work that was the consensus. Will you wear a harder hat, or even a hard hat? Just in case you do want to do construction work. > I did mention that I > use my head when I meditate- he did laugh at that. So now I need to > decide whether I should go through an operation or continue to be soft in > the head. What to do?? Did you ask what the probability of getting a tumor in the exact same spot would be? If you get another tumor there, it would be more convenient to get to now. > I don't know who else to ask so I can make this > critical decision. So these are our latest medical concerns. > > I did have an enriching experience on my 16 day silent retreat at IMS in > Barre Ma -- hard to put the whole encounter into words since > words are not applicable and often miss the mark when you try to express > mind states. I don't mind. > So write back when you can and see if you can give us any feedback. > > In Love, > BhavaniMa