Re: Redelurk and the importance of place (longish)

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 > From: "Peter D. Varley" <http://www.suffolk.lib.ny.us/~pvarley>
 > Date: Tue  Jul 13,  9:40am
 >
 > Really from: "Peter D. Varley" <http://www.suffolk.lib.ny.us/~pvarley>
 > Leslie wroted:
 > >>Which takes precedence for you -- your immediate surroundings (i.e., your
 > apartment, house, workspace), your city/region, a particular geographical
 > feature (such as the ocean, the mountains, etc) or your headspace (meaning
 > as long as you have your freaky internal INTJ world with you, you're
 > happy?)  Or is your homebase dictated by people?  And whatever your home
 > base is, how often do you need to check in to maintain your equilibrium?
 > Are you a traveler or a homebody or both?<<
 > 
 > Freaky internal INTJ world?  Er, am I on the right list?
 > 
 > My F, I, INFJ world only is strong enough to carry me through  certain
 > situations - bus rides, train rides, etc.  My immediate surroundings do take
 > precedence, ie my apartment and workspace, and, while messy sometimes, are
 > mine, mine, mine.  I have finally found a village on Long Island (NY) to
 > call my own; Sayville, and it extends out my sense of territory quite
 > nicely.  I've often thought of moving to Boston, I city I love, but money
 > has been tight, so relocating is not in the picture.

You probably don't want to live in Boston.

In general, I feel that (generally) people here are mean, nasty, and blunt.
When living on the west coast, people there were nicer.  It felt very
different.  (I said this before and got yelled at by the east-coastians (I
grew up on the east coast), but I still feel this way.)

 > Which brings me to a question of my own:  Are certain cities or towns more
 > INFJ than others?
 > 
 > peter v
 > Peter D. Varley
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