It was poor judgement to invite E.J. Graff to appear on a show about "Arranged Marriage" when she knows very little about this. She should have instead appeared on last week's (7/13/99) show. This misjudgement is really too bad because E.J. Graff has a lot of good things to say and it's doubtful that she'll get a chance to say them on this show. P.S. No, I'm not homosexual.